Showing posts with label dharamsala. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dharamsala. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

Where has the time gone?

Bus ticket has been booked. Flight has been confirmed. Pretty much all the other foreign volunteers have gone...

And in less than 24 hours, I'll be on my way out of Dharamsala. It's so nuts to think about... Four months ago it seemed like I'd be here forever, and now my bags are packed and I've spent the last three days meeting with friends and students, saying goodbyes. I've met some really fantastic people during my stay in Himachal; I hope I can keep in touch with at least a few of them.

My aunt and uncle told me years ago that college would be the best years of my life, that I'd make the friendships there that would last the rest of my years. It didn't really happen that way. Sure, I made a handful of great friends, most of whom I keep in touch with thanks to the magic of Facebook, but for the most part college just wasn't for me.

This, though... I think this is what they meant. It's on this trip that I feel like I've grown and come into my own. I'm ready to tackle some new directions in life; I've got a bunch of great new people who have earned places in my heart. It's a great feeling.

That being said, I'm full of a mix of emotions. I'm glad to be getting home to see friends and family, but I'll definitely miss this place and the people here. I was offered a job, invited back for a wedding, and asked by at least a dozen different people if I'd be back next year. I don't know, guys. Maybe the year after. I've got to earn some money before I can afford to do the volunteer thing again, and get some things sorted out in my "real" life. I'm ready for it, though. I needed a break, I needed something totally different -- and I got it, and now I think I'm refreshed and ready to take care of business.

Bring it on, Life.

For those of you in the States, my plan is to reactivate my phone # on Thursday so I can turn off airplane mode once I land. I'll do my best to answer your messages in a timely fashion. ;)

It's been fun, McLeod. Maybe we'll meet again someday.

Monday, December 2, 2013

A Motorbike Adventure, and Kashmiri Hospitality

The countdown is moving faster all the time! I'm now in my last 48 hours in McLeod Ganj. It's amazing how you can feel like you're getting things done but once the deadline gets close enough, it seems like there's no way you'll accomplish everything you want to before you go.

Yesterday I went on an adventure with Neil. I know early on I swore I'd never get on a motorbike here in India, but the circumstances were such that I decided I'd take my chances in this particular instance. We rode the back way out of Lower Dharamsala, where I'd never been before, through a little village called Khanyara, and into the mountains. When the road got bad enough we were worried about the bike surviving the trip, we parked it and walked the rest of the way.

We found a valley full of slate (I think?) with a river at the bottom. We made our way down to the river where we took photos and video of the rushing water before finding a big, flat rock to use as a picnic area and eat our lunch. It's pretty amazing... looking at the way the rocks in the sides of the valley had clearly moved due to some kind of tectonic activity at one point or another was stunning. Millions -- billions -- of shards of rock littered the ground; it was like a geological boneyard. Standing there pondering this, I couldn't help but think that nature is so huge and so incredible, the sheer randomness of everything that happens in the world is poetry on a huge scale. In the grand scheme of things, none of it means anything... and yet there is such detail and such beauty and such intricacy that it feels like there's no way we could possibly ever discover everything there is to see.

The world felt enormous beyond comprehension.



A gigantic boulder "menacing the path," as Neil said.





Can you see the caves?





As it has since I returned from Rajasthan, once the sun goes down the temperature drops ten degrees within a matter of minutes, and then keeps on going. We rolled back into McLeod Ganj bundled up in multiple layers. The guys at New Varuni House, where I'm staying, had invited me for dinner around 8/8:30. At about ten after I got a call on my room phone informing me that food was ready and I should come downstairs.

I should know by now that the Indian definition of "come for dinner" is a bit different from the American one. What they meant was "Come down for snacks, drinks, and conversation, and we'll have dinner in a couple of hours." Regardless, I had a good time hanging out with Sanjay and Anil as we talked about all kinds of things. Apparently the Kashmiris are known for their hospitality, and these guys definitely lived up to the standard. We had aloo gobi (that's potatoes & cauliflower for those of you less familiar with Indian food), a chicken dish that isn't on the menu, and chapatti (roti/bread). I mentioned that they didn't offer channa masala on the menu (chickpeas) and that it's my favorite -- Sanjay told me that as a matter of fact, they bought some channa earlier and they'd be happy to make it up for me before I left.

So that's what I'm getting ready to do right now: go down and have some channa masala made just for me. :3 If last night is any indication, I won't be making it back to my room until midnight or so, so I'd be wise to tidy up a bit before I go. My bus ticket is booked for Wednesday evening, I finished all but the last few tiny bits of shopping today (Sanjay even offered to drive me out to Bhagsu to look for one piece in particular), and so I figured I'd start packing. I'm pretty sure by the time I give most of my old clothing to some of the locals and toss things I neither want nor need, I should be able to fit everything else into one checked bag, a carry-on, and a personal item (admittedly one that just barely falls within the measurement restrictions).

Earlier today I met Kalden and Van for lunch since Van was all set to leave for Delhi this evening. One by one, the volunteers are leaving. I was one of the first to get here and it seems I'm the last to leave. I've been saying goodbye to all the friends and acquaintances I've made here; there are a handful of people I wish I'd gotten to know better, earlier. So it goes. I guess it gives me extra incentive to come back.

Saturday, November 23, 2013

Supporting the local economy

मेरे दोस्तों नमस्ते !
I'm the kind of person who likes to sleep in. Mornings like today are somewhat uncommon: I woke up an hour before my alarm went off (even though I didn't go to bed until 2am), energized and ready to Get Shit Done. I even surprised myself.

I'm now well within my last two weeks here in India, which means it's finally time to buy all the souvenirs and things I want to take home. I had been putting it off because buying more stuff would mean I'd have more stuff to store, and with a trip to Rajasthan in the mix, during which I left the rest of my possessions with a friend, it didn't make sense to add to the amount of things I'd have to cart back and forth. I don't imagine I'll be moving again before my final trip to Delhi, so now the shopping can commence.

If any of you want something specific, tell me now. If you want something specific and expensive, I'll send you my Paypal address so you can get those dollas to me.

I went into McLeod Ganj for breakfast, enjoying a satisfying chicken sandwich with mango & coriander chutney on the patio, in the sun, at Moonpeak Espresso. I haven't been there in a while. On my way, I stopped in to a shop to take a look at something specific on my list for a gift. The middle-aged Indian proprietor smiled a lot and wasn't pushy at all; when I asked in Hindi if he had what I was looking for, he became excited as well. We talked for a few minutes, him showing me various items on the shelves in his tiny store, and even though I felt like it must have been painful for him to endure my butchery of his native language when he clearly could speak mine, he complimented me, saying that my Hindi was "bohut sunder" -- very beautiful -- and that I sound like I've been speaking it for a long time. 

All I have to say is LOL. Thanks, sir, but I don't entirely believe you. It's sweet of you to say, though.

After breakfast I headed up to the ATM because, well, the whole point of going in to town today was to shop and I needed funds. Over the last 4 months I have made friends with one of the shopkeepers near said ATM. The guys over there tend to hang out outside because their shops are tucked back from the street; it's easier to grab customers if they're more visible.

Taj showed me all kinds of pretty things, of which I purchased a few unique pieces for gifts this upcoming Xmas (lucky you if you get one of them!). He made a comment that he'd give me the "local price" because I'd been here long enough that "now you are a local." I told him "Baria!" to which he responded with a surprised "and now you also speak Hindi!" He was kind enough to let me practice a bit, only reverting back to English when I really had no idea how to get my point across otherwise. It's so much fun. It's like decoding a puzzle.

I try to speak in Hindi as much as I can, because that's the only way to get better at it, not to mention more comfortable with it. Most of the people I do this with seem initially surprised but then appreciative; I have had a couple of Indians tell me that many foreigners come to Dharamsala because it's a Tibetan area, and the Indian locals get looked over or even looked down on. This is unfortunate, of course, but it works in my favor in a way because I stand out as "that foreigner who has actually bothered to learn our language." Obviously I support the Tibetan community as well -- it's the reason I came here, after all; I do volunteer at a place called Tibet Charity -- but there's a different sort of inclusion I feel when I bust out what little Hindi I have with the Indians. It's like I immediately gain a bit of status in their eyes, like I really am more "local." Sometimes, in my desire to use it as much as I can, I catch myself nearly speaking Hindi with my students or other expats who only understand English... it's pretty funny.

One thing I enjoy about McLeod Ganj and Dharamsala is being able to say at least "hello" in a few different languages. I know how to say this and "thank you" in Tibetan, and that's pretty much it -- but there's something exciting about walking down the street and greeting Tibetans with tashi delek, then passing a westerner or two and telling them hi, and responding to the Indian shopkeepers' "Hello, Madam" or "How are you?"  or "Yes, taxi?" -- it's like navigating a town full of NPCs, I swear -- with a namaste or thik, aap kaise hai? or nahin, thank you bhaiya. I feel so multicultural.

Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Make the vowel say its name

One thing I realized earlier is that some of the best classes we have at Tibet Charity are the ones that are not done, literally, by the book. My favorite ones to teach and, it seems, the ones that are often the favorites of the students as well, are the ones where we get off on some kind of tangent and explore some aspect of English that isn't necessarily in the lesson plan. A while back there was an entire day where all we did was prefixes, suffixes, and root words.

Today we wound up spending some time on pronunciation and spelling; the students had taken a test yesterday and I always go over it with them as a class the next day. Only one or two of them had spelled “twentieth” correctly, and when we read the reading passage I decided we could use some pronunciation practice. The main topic was how when a word ends in the letter “e,” the preceding vowel “says its name.” Obviously, like all rules in English, this is not an absolute... but it helped them distinguish between “Tim” and “time,” and I wound up teaching them a bunch of new vocabulary words in the process of illustrating the rule. We used words like pal/pale, tam/tame, slid/slide, and can/cane. They learned not only how to pronounce “crate” and “kale” but what they mean.

After that we did some sentence correcting on the board, which always goes over well. The first time I had them do it they were quite shy, but now that it's become a semi-regular thing they seem to enjoy it. I take sentences from their writing assignments and change some of the details but keep the mistakes. They go back and forth and help each other figure out how to fix them. I should probably spend more time developing exercises to supplement this, but we're not supposed to make copies aside from tests... so it's a little tricky. At least we have fun. Fun things are easier to remember.

This afternoon we said farewell to a couple of the teachers; Brij and Marie left on a trip to Rishikesh, where they will stay for at least the next week. As far as I know they don't have a strict itinerary, which is the same way we plan to see Rajasthan later this month. Everybody wish them a safe and fun trip!

While the two of them were getting their things to the bus to Rishikesh, I accompanied Verity, Gill, and Gusti to a meditation group that is held on Wednesday evenings here. They went once a couple of weeks ago; I had never been.

I think it was good for me. I'm going to try to work in a bit of meditation on a regular schedule and see what happens. I try to apply a lot of the principles that were introduced tonight anyway, but it's definitely something that could afford to be practiced and cultivated.

We did three separate meditations, the second of which was “walking” or “moving meditation.” It was a bit awkward at first, and then I realized that it was because dance is my moving meditation. When I'm home alone I put on music and just move, whatever seems like a good idea, I let the music guide me. That's what they were going for this evening, I think, but seeing as most people are too shy to really let loose in a room of people they don't know (I know I was the first few times I was asked to do it), just walking while drawing your awareness to everything you sense was probably the better way to go. Personally, though, I felt somewhat restricted. I decided I'll have to dance more in my room or maybe up on the balcony when nobody else is around.

I've been trying to work in a bit of yoga here and there, but it's mainly driven by my need to stretch. About a month and a half ago I took a yoga class in Bhagsu where we were instructed on how to properly do a headstand; I think I'm doing something wrong, though. Can anyone help? You yogis and yoginis out there... how do you do it?

Tuesday, October 8, 2013

A lack of beggars

One of the differences we'd noticed in Manali was a lack of beggars roaming the streets. In Dharamsala there are days when you can't walk fifteen feet without having someone call out "Sister, hello! Hello! Namaste!" or a woman with a baby on her hip come up, tap you on the shoulder and say "No money, milk. Hungry baby." You feel bad, but you also can't save everyone. Apparently the ones who ask for things other than money, like milk, take these items and sell them back to the shopkeepers. I've heard stories that the children don't even always belong to the women holding them; one of my students told me the beggars go to daycare centers, borrow the kids, and return them along with a share of the day's profits in the evening.

Anyway, we're back in D'sala and that means our reprieve from the begging has come to an end. Manali was also a lot cleaner. Oh well.

Something else I first noticed in Manali but that has also carried over in other areas of the mountainous Himachal Pradesh is a profusion of sweater vests. This makes me happy. Well, their presence in general makes me happy, being a knitter... the fact that they are all made out of what is obviously cheap acrylic makes me sad. There are sheep and goats around here, you'd think they'd have some woolen goodies to wear. I guess all the good stuff gets exported. I've been working on a pair of fingerless gloves lately, because I forgot to bring some from home and I have a feeling I'll need them before too much longer. I'm a little bummed that I'm missing fall at home, but oh well. You can't have everything. I guess I'll just have to settle for spring when it rolls around.

In English teacher news, my students took their Unit 3 test today. This means that they'll probably get through 6 or 7 chapters total by the end of the semester, out of the 9 in the book. I guess that's not too bad, right? According to the veteran teachers, it's next to impossible to actually finish the book in the amount of time we have, so I'm not worrying too much about it. It looks like I'll be spending the evening grading.......

Oh yeah, don't send me any more stuff please. I am kicking around the idea of cutting my trip a little short and coming home earlier than originally planned... I don't want anything showing up here after I've left, because it'll be a real pain to get back! India's great, but I have things I want to work on at home. We also have had a big influx of teachers at Tibet Charity, so it's not like I'll be leaving them hanging if I take off a little early. I was actually the only teacher who was scheduled to be here the entire semester anyway, which I didn't realize until I got here; everyone else signed up for one to three month stints. I guess I'll see how the next couple of weeks go and go from there. Even if nothing changes, I'll be back in Chi-town on December 6th -- less than 2 months away!

Just because I think this post needs a picture:
This one's for my runner friends.
No, I didn't go. I didn't even bring my running shoes to India, which is probably for the best... the roads are really dirty here and I'd be really sad if I ruined the only comfortable pair of shoes I've ever owned (Reebok RealFlex for the win).

Catch you guys later!

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

Travel Plans

Tibet Charity has been abuzz with activity lately. We have had a few new teachers arrive in the last few weeks, and supposedly there are more scheduled to get here soon. This Saturday some of the teachers are going on a day trip with the Director of Tibet Charity to a (semi-) local Tibetan settlement called Bir, as well as a school and at least one temple and/or monastery. Next week His Holiness is holding another teaching at the temple in town, so we don't have classes.

We foreign English teachers decided that sounded like a good time for a road trip. When I first decided to come to India to teach, I planned on that being all I did here. I figured I haven't really traveled before, and GOING TO INDIA was a pretty big trip in itself, so I could just chill and focus on teaching. Once I got settled in, though (and talked to some people), I started thinking it might be nice to travel a bit myself. India's a pretty big place, and the mountains here in Himachal (the state where Dharamsala is located) are not representative of the entire country.

So anyway, there are “holidays” planned. I'm nearly halfway through my stay here already! Can you believe it? It's looking more and more like the second half is going to be busy, too. September has just flown by, and I wouldn't be at all surprised if October and November do the same.

Earlier Gustie (Augustine), a teacher who arrived a couple of weeks ago from Austria, came in to lunch telling us that the police had made all the Tibetans on Temple Road dismantle their street stalls, because apparently they lacked the required permits to be there. It seemed strange; the street vendors are a huge part of the scenery around here. Besides, I don't imagine most of these people make a ton of money anyway; they are just trying to take advantage of the fact that they live in a popular tourist destination and support their families.

After class, I figured I'd go into town to check it out. I wanted to use the internet anyway.




It's so weird. Normally the street is lined with stall after stall after stall of people selling jewelry, or miniature prayer wheels, or little statues of the Buddha, or clothing, or artwork..... and now....... they're all gone. It's almost like a ghost town. I noticed things that had been hidden behind them this whole time, like a gazebo I didn't know even existed. Peering down the side of the mountain I could see the frames of stalls, tables, tarps... it's like in their haste to dismantle their property before it was seized by the cops they just tossed everything down the mountain. I'm curious to see how long it takes everyone to rebuild.

Sunday, September 15, 2013

In which I eat real tandoori chicken

A trip to Lower Dharamsala was made today, and Brij took us to what he has proclaimed to be one of his very favorite restaurants in the area: a place tucked back behind the main road where he could eat every day and never get tired of it. I have no idea if the restaurant even has a name... I imagine it does, but that sort of thing doesn't seem to be so important around here.

Fresh meat market. Not my usual kind of place, but thankfully it wasn't exceedingly gruesome.
Real Indian tandoori chicken, naan, and fixin's.

We ordered tandoori chicken with naan and some rice, and as in most restaurants here, we got a plate of sliced red onions to go with the meal.

No, I do not eat much meat. I was feeling like I could use some protein, though, and I figured I'm in India – tandoori chicken is one of those things that just seems like part of the experience. Furthermore, as far as I can tell there are no such things as factory farms here, and none of the meat I've seen since I got to India has looked like it was on any kind of hormones.

Let me tell ya... it was pretty damn good. That poor little chicken, at least, did not die in vain. Its sacrifice was very much appreciated.

After lunch we moseyed through town and Marie and I stopped in practically every fabric store we saw – which was close to a dozen of them – because she wanted to have a salwar kameez (traditional Indian dress) made and I was looking for fabric for a chupa (traditional Tibetan dress). I think I found some that I really like. Since I'll be here a while yet I decided to sleep on it before I bought anything. I really wish we had fabric stores like these near home in the States. They're like candy stores for us textile-aphiles. Marie and I decided we'd go back down sometime, just the two of us, and take our sweet time perusing the fabrics when we didn't have other people to worry about boring.

Now THAT is what I call a selection of colors!

The pretties! Look at them!

On our way down to the bus/Jeep stop to head back to McLeod Ganj, we spotted this little gem. The photo op was too good to pass up.

Isn't this a nice pic, Brandi? It made me think of you. <3
In other news, my knee is nearly healed up, I decided to cover up some of the stubbornest dirt on my walls with what we'll call a mural, and Brij has given me two and a half more pages of Hindi vocab to study. There has also been talk of travel for the next few weekends, and hopefully it will involve dancing! Stay tuned for details.

Wednesday, September 11, 2013

A Most Exciting Breakfast

I have been craving "muesli with fruit and curd" for the last week and a half. I had some the first morning I was in Delhi and it was really good. For those of you Americans who don't recognize half the words in that sentence, it's basically granola with yogurt and fruit. Pretty yummy.

So this morning as Gill was leaving her building to go teach her class at Tibet Charity, I poked my head out my balcony door and asked her to knock on Marie's door for me. Marie had already made some oatmeal, but she accepted my invitation to breakfast anyway so I collected my things and we headed into town for some coffee "and whatever."

On our way up, we passed this construction site like we always do on our way up Temple Road...


... when we heard a CRASH and found bricks falling from the top floor. Everyone on the street stopped. The Tibetan women near us started "tsk tsk"ing and saying "very dangerous," with which we agreed.

We decided to walk on the other side of the road.

A few minutes later we arrived at the Moon Peak Cafe, which I had never been to in the month I've been in McLeod. We've heard good things, though, so we figured we'd try it out since I wanted a coffee.

The menu reads thusly:
That seems fair.

We sat at a table outside and had just gotten our omelettes and coffee when we heard a ruckus from near the restaurant door. There was a whole bunch of arguing and shouting in Tibetan, and a couple of the restaurant guys were trying to reason with this guy who was clearly under the influence of something. I managed to record the end of the tussle. I missed the part where he punched the picture window. Sorry.

One of the other patrons came over and tried to reason with him. I'm pretty sure she was from New York, judging from her accent and fearless, brazen attitude.

Another patron was caught a little too near the altercation and we invited her to come sit with us. That's how we met Suzanne, who comes from Maine:
 
Suzanne and Marie, practically unruffled by the morning's commotion.

The rest of the day was less crazy. My students took their Unit 2 test and so far have done... decently. I developed some stomach cramps around noon:30 and had to take a little while off; I wonder if I ate my larger-than-usual breakfast too quickly? Regardless, I'm ok now, and I even came up to town for a pedicure at a Tibetan salon (350 rupees). I left a 50 rupee tip because they wouldn't let me pay for the bottle of nail polish my oh-so-graceful self dropped and broke... I may not be going back there for a little while if only because of embarrassment. Oh well. So it goes.

Here, finally uploaded, is the video I took the day I hurt my knee, in case you want an idea of what it's like going from my room to Lower Dharamsala. I didn't start recording until about halfway through the trip; it takes roughly 30 minutes total. You should kind of get the idea, though. There's less to see in the upper half of the trip anyway.

Sunday, September 8, 2013

To TED or not to TED

We saw this guy on the way up to McLeod Ganj this evening:

There were some snails too, but I'm having trouble with the uploading thing tonight.

Gill, Marie, Brij, and I spent most of the day in Lower Dharamsala roaming the place and just generally looking around. There was supposed to be a TEDx talk in the area, but according to the website the venue was simply "Dharamsala, India." I hate to break it to you, TED, but Dharamsala is a whole city, and a sprawling one at that. We had originally intended on attending the event, but after the very rainy morning and the fact that we weren't sure where to go, we decided instead to just go wherever seemed like a good idea at the time.

When we got back, I helped Brij get some splinters out of his hand (he had also taken a spill earlier in the week) and he helped me do this:


Yeah, it's time to quit being a slacker tourist and learn the local language. Yes, English is technically an official language of India and yes, 90% of the signs here are in English. Everybody seems to prefer speaking Hindi, though, and I can't think of a good reason not to learn at least a few key phrases. Wish me luck. ;)

Thursday, September 5, 2013

Glad I got that tetanus shot

People around town are getting excited for the end of the monsoon, and that includes me. This morning I decided to skip the teaching and instead take advantage of the bright, sunny balcony and do some laundry. Last night I actually made the executive decision to wash my pillows and their cases – after I saw how much dirt came out of them, there's no way I could have slept another night on those things. Damn. I'm hoping it's more due to the fact that everything in India is dirty and dusty, and less with the housekeeping of the staff at this establishment.

Regardless, it's my room for at least the next month, and that means ultimately it's up to me to keep it the way I want it. My spoiled American self is adjusting well, I think, to the fact that if I want something done I'd better be prepared to spend some time doing it myself. After I hung and laid out the rest of the laundry I decided to see just how much of the dirt on the window frame was permanent, and to my surprise and delight, the answer was “not much of it.” I had asked, with the help of my good friend and colleague Brij, for them to clean the room prior to my move in last weekend. When I arrived the floor was still a bit damp and so I figured they'd done all they could to ready the place. After I tried out the bed they even switched the mattresses for softer ones and gave me what appeared to be decently clean sheets.

After this morning, though, I realize that there is work to be done. Thank you so much for the new pillow Mom – it came just in time and it will be appreciated like no pillow has been appreciated before! Perhaps it's even my new best friend. I set out for Lower Dharamsala where things tend to cost less because a) I had to pick up a gift that I had made for one of you, and b) I wanted some cleaning supplies.

On the way, I slipped and sustained a bit worse than your average scraped knee.


I suppose it was bound to happen sooner or later, but I can't say I was happy at the prospect of having an open wound, wandering around India past the cow turds in the street and the piles of garbage on the corners. It's swollen now, but I've got it cleaned and Neosporin-ed and bandaged up, so I think I should be ok. I don't really want to walk too far tonight though, which means if this is posted on what is Thursday morning for you at home, I have gotten creative with how I access the www. If not, I guess I haven't out-clevered the Indian internet yet. Give it time.

Ok, so the knee got banged up on the way to Lower Dharamsala, which means I sort of limped through town as I ran my errands. Luckily, I only had to stop at 3 places before I decided I'd found a large enough percentage of the things on my list that I could head back and not feel like I wussed out too badly. The sky was also growing progressively darker, and I've lived here long enough to estimate that I probably had an hour at best before it started raining. Did I mention I'd forgotten my umbrella at home?

I asked the tailor where I could pick up “the Jeep” that everyone keeps telling me goes between Lower Dharamsala and McLeod Ganj and costs 10 rupees as opposed to the taxi which will run you 40 (usually only if you at least look Indian and can speak enough Hindi to talk them down), if not more. Ok, it's true 40 rupees or even 100 is not that much money. I've been spending more than I anticipated, though, and so I'm trying to cut back. Besides, I had also heard the bus/Jeep takes a more scenic route and I was interested in that. Oh, and it's what the locals do, taking the bus/Jeep. I'm trying to fit in. All the cool kids are doing it, you know.

Anyway, as luck would have it the bus pulled up as I was just reaching the bus stop (which I don't think has a sign, it's just where everybody congregates and the bus obliges by pausing for a moment) and I hopped on. I was really glad, because by this time my knee was reminding me with every left step that I really shouldn't be putting my weight on it.

The bus trundled its way over the potholed road that wound up to McLeod Ganj through a military base that proudly displayed signs with Indian soldiers brandishing rifles and mustaches, and slogans like “May God have mercy on my enemies – because I won't!” Totally worth the 10 rupees.

Half an hour later the bus pulled in to the bus station in McLeod, which I had never been to. I wasn't even sure what part of the city I was in, to be honest. Of course, just as we got there the clouds decided they'd held in all that moisture plenty long enough, thank you very much, and the daily downpour commenced. “That's cool,” I said to myself. “I can hang here for a little while.” And so I did. I chilled there at that bus station for an hour before I finally got cold and tired of the gaggle of Indian women who had since disembarked their own bus and decided to literally surround the chair I had sat down in and pay absolutely no regard for where their purses and dupattas were swinging as they animatedly chatted with each other. (That's a fancy way of saying it was loud, a little smelly, and I got whacked in the head a couple of times.)

At that point I flagged down an autorickshaw that had pulled in and asked how much it would cost for a ride to the bottom of Temple Road. After a brief clarification on where that was, he told me 80 rupees. I had decided before I asked that I was willing to pay 100, and a tuk-tuk, as they are also called, would be cheaper than an actual taxi, so that's why I tried him first.

The astute among you may notice that I could have just taken a taxi from Lower Dharamsala straight to my place and paid 100 rupees or less for the 15-minute trip, and now instead I'd taken an hour and a half and spent about what I would have anyway, and was cold and a little bit damp on top of the knee injury I'd have had either way. I could have saved myself a lot of time and trouble if I hadn't been so stingy in the first place, eh? Maybe so, but I actually welcomed the chance to just sort of sit near the dhaba (Indian cafe) in the station and watch people, and contemplate my situation. It may not have been the most efficient route, but I think it was the right one for today.

I got up to my room where I carefully counted how many switches I flipped on at once and took a shower. Or at least I tried to. I had left the water heater on all night in hopes that I could be guaranteed a hot shower whenever I wanted it, but that seems to have backfired because the “hot” water was only a step above lukewarm. Whatever, I thought, I just need to clean this knee up. So I did that, put on dry clothes, and decided I'd take it easy by snacking on some dried pineapple and recounting my adventure to you, dear friends.

For all it lacks, it really is kind of nice here. Some days I think I might actually be able to live in India for more than a few months. Maybe a different part of India; I hear Punjab is really nice. I think I'll also check out Thailand. I've had a bunch of people tell me lately that Thailand is like India but cleaner. That sounds fun.

Don't worry, I'll be home in December. I can't make any guarantees how long I'll stick around, though. In a lot of ways India has what I've been saying I wanted: walkable cities, all privately-owned businesses, and people being more concerned with appreciating what they have rather than working to constantly make more money so they can buy things they don't need. I think I'll probably end up going for someplace in between as far as lifestyle. I don't know that I'm ready to permanently give up reliable electricity and hot water, or salad, or nice knitting needles.

Sunday, September 1, 2013

Technical Difficulties

I've got a post all typed up for you about the adventure we had today, but sadly my phone's battery is low and it doesn't seem to want to upload the photos. The USB SD card reader I got hasn't been working lately either, so I need wifi in order to get the pretties off my phone and onto the laptop, and then on to the internets where you can marvel at them.

If anyone is planning on sending a package to me, please include either a couple of washcloths or one of those bath loofah things you can get for $1. I have yet to see either anywhere in Dharamsala, and I miss being able to scrub in the shower (and it's so dirty here it would be really nice to be able to get clean once in a while).

Friday, August 30, 2013

Waking up early can pay off

In my last post I made mention that I have been in India for about a month. Earlier today it occurred to me that it's also been a year since I quit working at Hanger – the end of August is an important time! It seems fitting, then, that I am looking at a 6-day vacation celebration. And then we go back to class for one day, and then it's the weekend so we have 2 more off. Hooray!

Don't get me wrong, my students are fantastic. I'm having a blast teaching here at TC, but come on, who doesn't appreciate a bunch of days off all in a row?

My classes begin at 11am now, so I've got a little time in the mornings to myself. Yesterday I purchased a couple of pairs of pants from one of the roadside vendors only to find that one of them was way too big for me. This morning I decided to run up to McLeod Ganj to exchange them. On the way I scouted out some turquoise earrings; I only brought 2 pairs of earrings to India with me, and turquoise is abundant in these parts, so I figured I'd get some. I stopped at a stall run by a Tibetan man who had a 7 month old baby with him (I asked, I don't have some magical ability to tell an infant's age) and he gave me the prices on his wares. After checking my wallet I realized I had only brought about 200 rupees with me; he was asking 350 for the ones I liked. He asked how much I'd give him for them (that's how it usually goes here) and I said I could only give him 150, because that's all I had. I wanted to stop for tea on the way back and that's usually about 30-40 rupees. He told me that he'd give me a “first customer of the day discount,” and if I gave him the 150 then I could bring him the other 100 later. Seriously, he suggested it. So not only was I getting a 100 rupee discount (almost 25%), but he was letting me walk off owing almost half of it. How could I turn that down?

So I agreed, paid him the 150 rupees, and set off to do the rest of my business. On the way back down I had a cup of masala tea and a chat with a dear friend, and then I went to teach class.

After class was over I made my first solo venture to Lower Dharamsala where I picked up my custom made salwar kameez, some spices and fruit, and a few odds and ends I'd decided I could use. General merchandise tends to be cheaper down there than it is in McLeod. On the trek back up it started raining. Of course. I didn't accept any rides from taxis – or the one guy on a motorcycle who offered – mainly because I was timing how long it took me to make the trip on foot, and also because it wasn't cold even though I got soaked by the time I made it to my place. I don't mind walking in the rain now and then.

Thirty minutes to get there, and about 35 to get back, for anyone who's interested. I was a little surprised; I felt like it took forever to make my way up all those steps.

One hot shower and a tiny bit of video gaming later, I headed back into McLeod Ganj to pay off my balance on the earrings and find some dinner. I wound up at The Clay Oven, which thankfully seems to make better sweet & sour veg than the last place I ordered it. They've also got pretty good internet, such that I was able to have a couple of Skype conversations and, as you can see, post this blog. This makes me happy. The food is pretty good, the atmosphere is nice, the internet is solid, but the thing that decided for me that I'll be back is the music: since I got here I have heard Sweet Home Alabama, Wonderwall, Imagine, Ironic, Pretty Woman, and How's It Going to Be (omg omg omg) as well as a handful of other songs that fall into that "I really dig this old song but I have no idea what it is or who sings it" category. Well played, Clay Oven. You had me at Third Eye Blind.

I may finally be getting this Skype thing figured out as far as which places in town have good enough internet to support it, so those of you who haven't connected with me there yet (Lindsey, Casey, I'm looking at you!) should hit me up. Also! Who wants to learn Esperanto with me? I will give you Skyping priority if you do! (Read this to find out why I'm taking this detour on my way to learning Hindi. Check out the rest of his page too, this dude is pretty cool.)

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Shalom, Namaste, Tashi Delek...

Today I taught my usual two classes as well as a one-hour conversation class with a few of my Elementary students. They seem to be enjoying the new vocabulary which is “much more useful” than the vocabulary they get from some of their other conversation teachers at other places around town. I'm slowly getting them to come out of their shells. One monk, Jampal, has clearly studied English before and is much more proficient and comfortable with the language. He's serving as an “emergency interpreter” of sorts when either I can't get my point across or the other students can't sufficiently explain what they want to say. He's also a really nice guy and a very good student. I'm enjoying having him in class.

After that I headed into McLeod Ganj to meet up with Palsang for an English lesson. He showed me to a pizza place I hadn't yet been to, but we only ordered tea. We went over his homework, he practiced reading from a Tibetan newspaper he has been carrying around for months, and we did a lesson on when to use who/where/which in sentences.

From there I headed to the Green Hotel to wait for the elderly man I'd agreed to help with “a few emails.” Four and a half hours later, I'm finally sitting comfortably in my own room for the evening. I figured it would take a little while, but let me tell you, I am simply exhausted now.

Amram has lived in Dharamsala for the last 5 years. Apparently, a few years back he was diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease, which is why his hands shake and he needs a full-time caretaker. He's in his 60s but looks like he could be a decade older. He and his Tibetan caretaker, Rosie, showed up a little later than I expected but it was ok; I got to catch up with some Facebook messages while I waited.

They got situated at the table and I set up my laptop. As it turns out, we had to compose an email seeking funding and also a travel companion for a 6-month trip he wants to take around India to document the country's Jewish communities. Amram's hunched body sits rigidly in a chair, his hands always shaking, and he speaks very quietly. After I read back to him a couple of times what we'd written he asked me to speak more quietly; apparently his hearing is still pretty good. We wrote and rewrote, and then he had me go into his email account and send the message to most of the people in his contacts list.

Then I had to go into his other email account.

And his other one. And his other one.

In each, he had me read the names in his contact list and he'd tell me – in that barely audible voice – whether I ought to add the person to the list of recipients. I didn't mind so much when there were only 30 contacts, but when we got to the account with 92, I have to admit I had a moment of frustration. Oh well, I figured, I'm invested now, I can't just leave him.

So on we went. Then he asked me to compose another, shorter email to send to a select few people, personalizing them just a bit for each one.

Rosie reminded him of the time and asked him to hurry up. They argued a little; I stayed out of it. Eventually we got through everything and they called a taxi to take me home, which was really nice.

What's that saying, Julie, about doing something for someone who can never really repay you? Not that writing emails is all that earth shattering or anything, but Dharamsala certainly seems like a place where there is no shortage of people who could use a little help.

All things considered, I'm glad I'm here.

Sunday, August 4, 2013

Norbulingka

Friday I taught my first real life English class! I'm teaching the elementary level, which means I've got a lot of Kalden's former students. The class is pretty full; there were 27 on the roster and then a few more signed up later on. They all seem eager to learn and were very pleasant to work with. Maybe half of them were wearing Buddhist monk or nun robes. I have a good feeling about the semester.

Yesterday, Saturday, Kalden took Julie and me to a swimming pool outside Dharamsala where he goes a couple of times a week to exercise (as if climbing the roads and steps inside the city isn't enough of a workout).


Big dragonfly!
Julie and I discussed my inspiration to develop a garbage disposal infrastructure to implement in India, because it really is a beautiful country if you get past all the trash in the streets. People just throw their garbage wherever is convenient. It amazes me how most public places don't even seem to have garbage cans available; something I never even considered back in the US. Maybe, she said, in ten years or so after I've done some work on it I'll be on the stage giving a TED talk. I came to India to better the lives of Tibetans, and I find myself inspired to improve the situation of Indians. Any engineer friends want to help me out with this?


Julie and I talked under the overcast sky, and it was only after we got back to our room and took showers that we realized we had both, in fact, sustained some considerable sunburns. (Sorry, no pic.) If I'd have realized it at the time, I would have at least flipped over to even myself out.

After we left the pool, Kalden took us to the Norbulingka Institute for Tibetan Arts. It's preeeeeeeeeetty.


Kalden and Julie on the steps to the Norbulingka Institute.

Tibetan books.


By far the biggest Buddha I've ever seen.
Upstairs in the Buddha shrine.

Friday, August 2, 2013

The Road to Dharamsala

Half an hour behind schedule, the buses arrived outside Majnu Ka Tila, the Tibetan neighborhood in New Delhi where we had been staying. Each day, five or so buses make the 12-hour trip from there to Dharamsala. Mine, of course, was the last to arrive; with each bus that pulled in, Kalden assured me that mine was nicer. Sure enough, the bright orange Volvo was a darned comfortable way to travel. We got our luggage loaded and took our seats, our tickets were checked, and we were on our way. One of the bus operators came by and handed each of us a bottle of water for the trip.

A very nice, very comfortable Volvo bus. For only Rs. 900/- (about $15)!

I said hello to the man sitting next to me, who luckily turned out to be a very friendly surgeon by the name of Vivec who lived in New Delhi but had been traveling the last few weekends to Palampur, a city about an hour outside of Dharamsala, to work. I told him I was from the Chicago area and he informed me that he had a brother who lived in Westmont. Go figure, right? His English was fantastic, and so we talked quite a bit on the trip. He told me how he loved working in the mountains, how it's much nicer than in New Delhi, and how it was unfortunate that India had yet to do anything about population control because so much poverty and pollution could be avoided if only there weren't so many people. He is of the opinion that due to connectivity over the internet and such, this coming generation would do something about it and within the next 15 or 20 years things would change. I hope he's right.

The first few hours of the ride were uneventful. It rained; it took us a while to get out of the city and onto the highway where we could really make decent time. Vivec informed me that we first had to travel a “ring road” of New Delhi (kind of like in Indianapolis, I think) and then we could get on Highway 1, which would take us to another highway that went through the mountains. Most of the trip seemed to be on what I'd consider rural highways: think Route 6 or 52 as opposed to 55 or 80. Eventually we stopped for a food and bathroom break at a little area that seemed designed just for travelers like us. Vivec kindly bought me a snack for the road and remarked how the weather was quite nice that evening. New Delhi had been so hot and humid it was a relief to stand out in the breezy open area.

We reboarded the bus and I decided I'd sleep since the rain kept me from seeing much out the windows anyway. Seven or eight hours later I woke to find that it had gotten windy. Thankfully, the driver was expertly navigating the curves and inclines in the road. He honked at the vehicles and pedestrians we passed to alert them to the bus's presence; I was reminded of a video game (I can't remember which one... help me out here, guys) where you wander through an area and as you pass the mobs they suddenly become aware of your presence and a little alarm goes off. Spore, maybe? Some RPG? It was pretty amusing.

An area identifying itself as “Bombay Hotel picnic area” had just enough light to see that it was full of lounging cows. They didn't pay much attention to the bus as it passed.

Now a good 9 or 10 hours in, the road became increasingly curvy as we wound our way into the mountains. I'm not sure how the bus, as long as it was, was able to navigate all those switchbacks and steep inclines, but the driver had clearly done this enough times before that he wasn't worried. These roads were not built for buses, but the buses managed anyway.

At one point I looked out the window to see lush green vegetation out the left side windows and the ground falling away steeply on the other side of the road. Thankfully, the driver slowed down considerably here. Everyone else appeared to still be sleeping and I wondered how they managed. We were getting sloshed around so much between the bumps in the road and the constant changes in direction I couldn't sleep if I tried.

India is beauuuuuutiful!

After a while of this I started munching on the ginger candy I had remembered to pack, lest I fall victim to uncontrollable motion sickness. I didn't want to be “that passenger” who couldn't handle the drive. I closed my eyes and tried to concentrate on anything but the motion of the bus. The road wound up, up, up, and my ears popped from the altitude.

Everyone else slept.

The sun began to break to the east, a soft, gentle light through the fog that slowly revealed the shapes of the trees and the distant mountains. “We are in the clouds now,” Vivec observed. “You don't get this in Chicago.”

The road continued winding up and up around a mountain on our right hand side. To the left, the ground stretched away into impossibly green valleys and hills, full of the densest, brightest green I have ever seen. Florida is green and tropical, but not like the mountains of India. The fog broke and I could see tiny villages nestled in the valleys. The air was so crisp and clear up there... I felt like I could see the tiniest detail, every leaf, in trees half a mile off.

The bus passed through a tunnel cut into the side of the mountain and we emerged on the other side to an area with a small river on the left and waterfalls cascading down the rock face on the right. Vines and leaves clung to the wall, and the road became even more sketchy. The driver stopped for a few minutes, as if considering if it was worth attempting to cross to the other side. I'm sure this wasn't his actual reason for stopping, but it seemed like it would have been a good one.

We started moving again and crossed a bridge built over the river. I saw a furry little something scamper across the top of it and thought to myself “I haven't seen any squirrels out here... a couple of chipmunks at the Red Fort, but was that a squirrel?” Of course not, silly. It was a monkey! My midwest self was tickled by the prospect of seeing a real live wild monkey, but I kept it to myself because, well, I didn't want to seem that touristy. It was just as well, because as we drove on the monkey population steadily increased. We entered an area signs identified as Kangra. Twice the bus had to stop to allow a pack of monkeys to cross the road. They perched in the trees and on rocks, munching on who knows what and watching us pass.

As we entered the town, stray dogs (there are a LOT of them in India) bounded down the hills either to see us or just to play. I spotted hibiscus growing wild, and dogs lounging on rooftops. We passed dozens upon dozens of shops, one of them selling beautiful hanks of yarn. A sign advertised an American Montessori school some distance to our left. We drove on and I spotted donkeys in the street now, too.

Another thing about India? They sure do like Coke. There were entire stretches of towns that were quite literally plastered in red Coca-Cola signs, very often accompanied by the same photo of a light-skinned Indian woman drinking from a bottle of the stuff.

Vivec disembarked about an hour and a half before my stop and gave me his number telling me to call if I needed anything, or to come to Palampur if I needed any sort of medical help. I thanked him and made a mental note to get a phone that works here, as mine does not.

Eventually we reached Dharamasala and McLeod Ganj (“Upper Dharamsala”), and Palsang helped me get to Tibet Charity. The manager, Mr. Boom, helped me to Kalden's room – Kalden had given me a key since he wasn't going to arrive until the next day, saying I was welcome to stay there for the night – and I took a nap before making my way downstairs for the opening ceremony.

I met Rinzin, one of the coordinators at the charity, who speaks excellent English and, along with Kalden, teaches the beginner and super-beginner classes because they also speak fluent Tibetan in case students need extra help. She and the director of the charity, whose name I have yet to learn (he seems to be referred to simply as “Mr. Director” by most people, and I think I'll just follow suit for now) introduced me along with the one other teacher who was there to the room of 70 or so students. We received white stoles which I was later told is a sign of respect among Tibetans. The other teacher is a woman named Gill (Gillian) who hails from New Zealand. This is her third time coming to teach at Tibet Charity, and so I made it a point to befriend her. She later showed me around town, pointing out her favorite places to eat and to buy essentials like toilet paper and bread. Gill is very nice and very helpful, and so I intend to stay on her good side.

We ate at a Tibetan restaurant called Nick's and shared a plate of momo, a type of Tibetan dumpling. We visited a rug shop where we saw about a dozen women sitting at looms, industriously weaving some of the most gorgeous rugs I'd ever seen. 


Yes, I asked permission before filming them and taking photos. Does anyone need a rug? They're unbelievably cheap.

Gill suggested I invest in an umbrella because the weather changes quickly up here. I found a pretty blue one for 250 rupees (about $4.25). By this point I was getting tired, the bus ride finally taking its toll, and so we retired to our respective rooms and agreed to meet up for dinner at 6pm. I took a nap despite the storm that had started... At first it was just rain that got increasingly heavy. Then the fog rolled in, and the loudest crash of thunder I'd ever heard in my life made even me, a big fan of thunderstorms, jump. We're closer to the thunder up here in the mountains, I thought. It crashed a few more times and I managed to fall asleep.

After dinner, Gill showed me to the temple in town, the Dalai Lama's temple. It's modest but beautiful; no cameras are allowed inside, sorry guys. The view from the surrounding walkway is amazing. You can literally see for miles across the town and the mountain valleys, everything eventually disappearing into fog.

On our way back, I met Tashi, one of the local stray dogs and a regular at Tibet Charity. Apparently Tashi is the loud dog Kalden had warned me about when telling me about the available apartment. He's bright white, very friendly, and apparently about 15 years old. He followed me most of the way back to the charity before deciding instead to stay outside.

 My new roommate Julie and Tashi the guard dog.

I came back and worked on a lesson plan before deciding I was still too tired to function well. As I type this, I've got my notes sitting next to me waiting to be filled out. It's about 9:30am, though by the time I have access to internet so I can post this it will be a few hours later. Right now, though, I'm going to go take a shower because the water heater should have warmed up enough by now (you have to flip a switch to make it work; I think it's hilarious that I know this from watching the new Karate Kid movie. Remember that part, Andy?) and then I'm going to give my coursebook another look before I head down to teach my first ever real English class.

P.S. It's fucking beautiful here.


Literally walking in the clouds.
The view from a balcony at Tibet Charity.
The road to go around the Dalai Lama's monastery. Pretty, no?